A very good place to start... and where to finish

A wonderful piece of decorating advice I received early on is to finish one room at a time. And if you can’t do it all at once, start with the floors, walls and windows. That means deciding on a cohesive furniture plan so you know the long-term layout then start with a rug, paint/wallpaper and window coverings. These are the base layers of a room that start to make it feel cozy and considered, even without furniture.

Understanding the layout of a room impacts what size rug or how many if you're using them to ground different areas. Considerations for walkways and where large scale furniture will go also impact a rug's dimensions. These are also the foundational items that make up the building blocks of a room and rarely change.

Pillows, lamps, accessories and art, while just as important to the whole aesthetic, are typically easier to swap and save on. Plus these elements tend to be more personal in nature and there should be room to add and change them over time.

Flea markets, local boutiques, Etsy, thrift shops and antique stores are the best options to shop for these one of a kind items. Anything that’s mass produced is usually “trendy” so just remember that as you go for your Target run. I once heard a designer say she hadn’t been to Target in over a year! And it stuck with me that she probably wasn't buying any home decor there. While always fun to look in Homegoods, it is hit or miss. It sometimes falls into the trend trap, but also has some steals. I once took my shopping haul home to realize that all of the pieces had scalloped detailing on them. Trend overload! Also, beware of furniture there as the scale of their pieces is often off. However, one area in particular that you can find some steals is their rug section. I've seen large all wool options for a fraction of the price.

A mix of high and low (just like old and new) in the same room makes the space much more interesting. Just don’t try to save on everything. That’s why we recommend starting with a budget. Because it gives you permission to spend on key items. 

Here are some of my favorite local stores in Richmond, VA for used, vintage and antique finds. We are so lucky to have such a rich variety of options here in our small city.

West End Antiques $-$$ - from used to antique options, great starter store

Project1 Home Furnishings $$-$$$ - European antiques and new lighting and accessories

Gramercy Collective $$ 

Kim Faison $$$-$$$$ - antiques from around the world  

Revival Consignment $ - contemporary furniture  

Verve $$ - vintage and new 

Justin Westbrook Antiques - $$$$

You may also consider a day trip to Kilmarnock to check out Lewis Trimble Decorative Arts & Antiques ($$$, I’d pay admission to go in here) and the Kilmarnock Antique Mall ($).